FACEBOOK...
it can be a wonderful way to meet, connect, and network with different people from different places....a way to express yourself verbally with the public without ever meeting that person
OR
it was be depressing because so much personal information is given out over facebook...from your status (what, where, why, who...anything you want to know bout what a person is doing)
BUT
I want to tell facebook that I need my space back. At this moment I'm login in on fb and looking at other people's status.... and I don't like what I just saw.
This dude that I have been talking to since February (on and off) has his status as "Thru all the struggles... I have finally realized that what we have is hopeless.. So quietly I'll walk away"
HE IS TALKING ABOUT ME!!!
I need to vent...
We have had this "talk" about making it official or not. I won't lie about my feelings for him. There were strong and real feelings for him but there was that doubt in my heart his wasn't right for me. Yes, I enjoyed his company and I love spending time with him. I question...was I sending the wrong signals?
This situation got me thinking....
When you find someone that you're interested in and you hang out (kick it or whatever) basically spending most of your time with this one person then does that mean it has to end with a relationship?
If that was complicated to understand.... does every guy you talk to and build a friendship with NEED to end with making it official???
Guy meets girl, guy falls for girl, girl doesn't know if guy is right for girl...that is how this story is going.
Yes, there are most components to the situation but sometimes you got to keep it simple.
There are some people who give you doubt and rather than find out what that doubt is MAYBE things should end.
I'm confused and I wish that I had the right answer to this problem...but maybe there is no right answer
Let's see what happens....
(Ladies....never settle for something that you feel isn't right for you. Always follow your heart because that's what will make you happy at the end of the day. If you follow your mind then you might make a decision that you will regret at the end of the day. Love is something that is not should not be played with. Don't say those three special words if you don't mean it (even if there is doubt or not) My heart has been broken before and I hate to see someone's else heart broken because of me)
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